Bakit kailangan puso ay masaktan
Bago maintindihan ang siyang nararamdaman
At kahit iwasa'y naro'n sa damdamin
Yakap at mga halik ay nadarama pa rin
[CHORUS]
Dahil tanging ikaw ang siyang lahat
Nang mawalay ka nang minsa'y
hindi ko matanggap
Kulang ang sandali pag ika'y wala
Sadyang kapag wala ka'y
wala rin ang tuwa
Kung ang 'yong puso'y
may mahal nang iba
Di pa rin magbabago ang aking nadarama
Ako ay aasang magbabalik ka pa rin
Ang iyong pagmamahal
at ang dating pagtingin
Bago maintindihan ang siyang nararamdaman
At kahit iwasa'y naro'n sa damdamin
Yakap at mga halik ay nadarama pa rin
[CHORUS]
Dahil tanging ikaw ang siyang lahat
Nang mawalay ka nang minsa'y
hindi ko matanggap
Kulang ang sandali pag ika'y wala
Sadyang kapag wala ka'y
wala rin ang tuwa
Kung ang 'yong puso'y
may mahal nang iba
Di pa rin magbabago ang aking nadarama
Ako ay aasang magbabalik ka pa rin
Ang iyong pagmamahal
at ang dating pagtingin
Bakit nga ba? Aside from the reason/s stated in the song, there are so many instances where one really gets hurt to realize that love.
"Mahal kita kahit ang sakit-sakit na!!!"
Ayan! One famous line from John Lloyd Cruz. Ano na ngang movie yun?
Sige, tama na ang pa-cute!
Here are some instances that love is getting in the way to hurt you:
- Jealousy. Nasasaktan ka 'pag ang minamahal mo ay nasa piling ng iba. Hindi ka mapakali and you get paranoid. Then, you get insecured. It's up to you what happens next.
- Reject. Ouchy huh? Getting rejected by the one you love can hurt like being shot by a gun. You expected at least somehow, that person will love you in return. But then again, he/she cannot.
- He/She is in love with someone else. Its similar with reject. Likewise, it can lead to jealousy. You've been wanting to be in a relationship and eventually end up with this person, only to find out that he/she cannot love you back because he/she is already in a company of a better half. Puedeng naunahan ka lang or it's not really meant to be.
- Death of a loved one/When the person left. You'd taken the person for granted while he/she was still alive and not realize his/her importance until he/she is gone. Sometimes, we don't value the person enough despite his/her love until he/she gets tired and leave you for someone or something better, that's the time we only realize what we lost.
Bakit kailangan na puso ay masaktan? Dahil doon lang natin naiintindihan ang totoong nararamdaman. Doon natin napagtatanto ang totoong sinisigaw ng ating mga puso. At doon tayo mas natututong magmahal.
Usually, we don't feel it when we're happy. We take it for granted. If things went wrong, that's the time when we realize the love.
Or maybe, we don't recognize it when it's there because of the fear of getting hurt. But eventually, it's going to get there and we have no choice.
"Wag 'kang matakot masaktan. Dahil doon mo makikita ang tunay mo'ng kaligayahan..."
Masaktan? 'Di talaga maiiwasan 'yun! It's part of life. Anyway, wala naman talagang masama 'pag minsan o madalas nasasaktan tayo. It's how we face it. However, don't let it eat you, ok?
Don't be scared. =] It's temporary.
Believe me, you'll be a better person if you face it with courage.
Personal advice ko naman, pray =] It's gonna help for sure. Ayt?
